let me start this off with the bad stuff. i'm a guy. i'm in love with another guy. don't be mean to me.
this guy is my best friend and he has been ever since we met a year ago. he's moving away in a month or so and it's doubtful we'll see each other again. i want so badly to tell him how i feel just because nothing could be lost, but at the same time i'm not sure it's the responsible thing to do.
should i tell him before he leaves? how?
this guy is my best friend and he has been ever since we met a year ago. he's moving away in a month or so and it's doubtful we'll see each other again. i want so badly to tell him how i feel just because nothing could be lost, but at the same time i'm not sure it's the responsible thing to do.
should i tell him before he leaves? how?
Answers
i agree with hcook3
go for it if thats what u feel u should do
what could it hurt..
if it turns out badly
he's moving anyways
go for it if thats what u feel u should do
what could it hurt..
if it turns out badly
he's moving anyways
i agree with hcook3
go for it if thats what u feel u should do
what could it hurt..
if it turns out badly
he's moving anyways
go for it if thats what u feel u should do
what could it hurt..
if it turns out badly
he's moving anyways
Trust your gut - he is your best friend. Do you think he might like you? If you're not sure, it might be a good idea to come out to him. Understand he may not be very kind at first, but if he's a true friend he will accept you. It will be awkward for a little while. Once you get over that awkwardness, you'll have someone to confide in and discuss your feelings with. Later, if you keep in touch once he leaves, you can tell him you do/did have feelings for him. Be careful not to overload your friend all at once, or he may do or say things you'll both regret later.
Sorry to hear about your friend moving away. No one can control who they love, so I think you should tell him how you feel, because it will make you feel better, and you will know if he feels the same way or not. If things don't work out, don't worry about it. Love comes and goes all the time. If you don't tell him neither of you will never know what could have been. Good luck my friend.
yes you should tell him before you leave and the way to tell him is to invite him over or call him and talk to him. be completly up front with him and he should understand! Im in remotly in the same situation! Just talk to him about it over a coffee or sumthing like that just think he might be thinking the same thing
petrin your not in the same situation... he says hes a guy and he loves another guy.. your not gay lol
dude ur undercover, dont be scared if ur gay ur gay. ur buddy might not be gay so if ur tell him, he might not like it. so go for it, and see what happen before its to late
i hope u dont get beat up
i hope u dont get beat up
Well im the advice columnist at my school and i want you to know that if ur gay than make sure that this is the way inwhich you want to live yourlife. I myself am an openly gay student in a predominantly straight school. I am, accepted and tolorrated but that is after the pain and tears i am still standing strong. Well you first need to ask him is he gay bi or str8 if he is not gay or bi leave it alone. but if he say anything other than str8 than tell him how u feel and you have to take it from there. But you must be strong.








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