i know this is cheesy and everyone says this, but have you guys ever met that one girl and then you knew it was love at first sight? There's a new girl in our class (we're sophomores) and shes really cool. She's into awesome music an likes to hang out with us, but I think a lot of guys like her. She seems really friendly to me, but I can never tell if she means it in a romantic way or in a friend way, you know? Anyone know how you can tell the difference, or have advice for what I should do?
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I personally don't believe in love at first sight since I think love is something that one develops over time but I can understand why you're emphatuated by her. I would say that you should ask her out on a date. Don't do something boring and typical like going out to dinner. Go participate in a fun activity like ice skating, bowling, minigolf, etc. This is much better than going out to dinner because you're not just staring at each other the whole time and you can see how it goes. Be playful and have fun with her on the date. If you feel that it's going well ask her if she'd like to go out to get ice cream or dessert afterwards. If she says yes, then she's probably interested in you being more than just a friend.
I agree with the other answer - just go ask her out! Most of us girls feel get frustrated because guys who have a crush on us never say anything and just keep their feelings to themselves. If she says no, that's fine too - at least you found out!
I think you should ask her if she'd like to study with you and when you guys study together, you can see if she's flirtatious and if she seems different when she's just around you instead of around everyone.
Well if you are asking for help with girls on a site like this then I dont think you stand a chance buddy and it is pretty cheesy
Just go ask her if you want to know if she wants to be just friends or if she wants to be your girlfriend. Girls want a guy who can walk straight up to her and ask her out!
Just dont seem too desperate. And honestly, just ask her if she likes you. Dont do it in a round about way or ask her friends, thats just immature and shady.
you have to go for it and dont try to cover up your feelings because you are worried about what your friends may think. the focus is on her and what you need to tell her, let her know; and the answer will be between you two.
If you're too shy to ask her on a date, which is perfectly understable, you can ask a couple of your friends, say another guy and girl, to go out with you guys, so its kind of like a double date, but you don't have to mention that its a double date obviously. All you have to say is that a couple of friends are going out tonight, and ask her if she wants to come. Make sure you do something fun like go bowling or something. While on this "double date," make sure you spend time with her instead of your friends and see if she's really interested. I hope this helps.
- girls LOVE compliments! Next time you see her tell her how good she looks.
- when your talking with her (eye contact)
- fool around with her!! lol meaning joke around & be playful
- if she's having a bad day, try to make her feel better as in trying to find out whats wrong and give her advice.
- Make plans! she'll never get to know you if u dont hang with her. Go to a movie with a group of people and if she comes and talks to you and flirts with you then you know out of a hole group of people she wanted to talk to YOU.
- be confident in yourself (girls love confidents) Dont dress like a bum everyday, dress nice, wear nice colone, and always have gum! (seriously tho...gum)
- Just be yourself, and if she dont like it....NEXT.
- when your talking with her (eye contact)
- fool around with her!! lol meaning joke around & be playful
- if she's having a bad day, try to make her feel better as in trying to find out whats wrong and give her advice.
- Make plans! she'll never get to know you if u dont hang with her. Go to a movie with a group of people and if she comes and talks to you and flirts with you then you know out of a hole group of people she wanted to talk to YOU.
- be confident in yourself (girls love confidents) Dont dress like a bum everyday, dress nice, wear nice colone, and always have gum! (seriously tho...gum)
- Just be yourself, and if she dont like it....NEXT.
well, the only way you'll know if she likes is when she accepts any offer you have or if you ask her to do something for you! make like 5 romantic questions, then ask em'those 5's one by one each day...if the answer majors to yes then you'll know she does like you, but if it majors to no then either she looks up to you as a brother or a friend
if you keep the real you and not acting like some impressive guy she will like you!! girls arent really into guys that try too hard to get noticed! stay true to yourself and you might get a reward in the end!! but i agree with ctruong!! dont do dinner. just go have fun and show her your real side!! take charge and give her the time of her life!!
just run up to her ask her if she think you look good and if she does take her away to the janoters closet
Go for it and yea it is pretty cheesy but I kno wat you mean that happened last saturday to me and now i just dumped my other gf for this one because it was love at first sight. and also remember anything that can blleed for a week and not die can be evil!





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