Alright here is my story. I am a junior in highschool. There is this girl at my school. She is pretty, popular. and has dated a lot of the good looking popular guys. She is also friends with a lot of guys. I on the other hand am pretty popular, but I am not really good looking and I am not know as a ladies man at all. One day at lunch I sat by her, I talked to her a lot and that was it. She started talking to me a lot more after that. I always joke around and she always laughs at my jokes. She will constantly joke too and call me her "boo" or "honey" etc. We talk a lot. We are comfortable around eachother. The other day I came to a party and when she saw me she ran over and gave me a big bear hug. She is out of my league imo. I just wanted to know your opions on if she is interested in me or just wants to be friends. She has a lot of friends that are guys. So what do you think? Also how can you tell if a girl wants to be just a froemd or more? Feedback would be much appreciated.
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Relationships aren't all about looks. If two people have good chemistry and enjoyable personalities, then leagues or looks or whatever don't matter. To figure out if she's interested in something more, you should be direct. Too many high schoolers like to play that hard-to-get, push-and-pull style of courtship. That's lame. Just be honest and ask. If she's cool, then she'll give you an honest answer.
you will never know until you ask..
sure youre probably thinkin why would you do that?
but if you think about it ..
would you want to be her best friend while youre grown..
and youre secrectly in love with her and cant ell her?
it wouldnt hurt to try ^.^
sure youre probably thinkin why would you do that?
but if you think about it ..
would you want to be her best friend while youre grown..
and youre secrectly in love with her and cant ell her?
it wouldnt hurt to try ^.^
I think that if a girl is like that she is either thinking the same thing you are, and wondering if you like her too.
All girls want to feel loved. AND are flattered when guys tell you that they like you
It never hurts to ask
just find the right time to ask.
All girls want to feel loved. AND are flattered when guys tell you that they like you
It never hurts to ask
just find the right time to ask.
The "friend zone" is the hardest concept for guys to get, but as a girl ill try to help. You must ask yourself a couple questions
1. Right after she talks to you does she move on to the next guy?
2. Are things you talk about impersonal?(like the weather, homework, or sports)
3. Is she a very flirtatious person, with her guy friends?
If the answer to these questions is yes, then she is probably just keeping you innthe friend zone.
Start asking her more things about herself, itr will show your intrested in who she is more than just being her good time pal
1. Right after she talks to you does she move on to the next guy?
2. Are things you talk about impersonal?(like the weather, homework, or sports)
3. Is she a very flirtatious person, with her guy friends?
If the answer to these questions is yes, then she is probably just keeping you innthe friend zone.
Start asking her more things about herself, itr will show your intrested in who she is more than just being her good time pal







